from
INSECURE
to the
MOST CONFIDENT PERSON
in the
ROOM
30 hrs watching alpha male content
+20 hrs reading charisma books
+4 hrs awkward conv attempts
+1 week trying dominant body language
+3 days forcing eye contact with strangers
+1 hr mirror affirmations feeling fake
+12 hrs approaching someone… and backing
out last second
= 200 hours of frustration
97% of your behavior
is influenced by your subconscious
you're fighting someone who has
97% of weapons
97% of battlefield
97% of control
↓
you lose
you're not in charge
of your own mind
your emotions
your thoughts
your actions
↓
your
subconscious
patterns
I never worry about what to say
the perfect words flow effortlessly
I'm so comfortable in my own skin
that others can't help but feel drawn to me
I speak and people lean in
to catch every word
I never try to get attention
it flows to me automatically
I walk into rooms and
people WANT to know who I am
Others seek MY approval
not the other way around
You wouldn't act confident—you'd BE confident
at your core
These beliefs would run automatically in the background of your mind
Shaping every interaction, every opportunity, every moment
× Rehearsing what to say before speaking
× Wondering if you belong in important rooms
× Feeling invisible in social situations
× Doubting whether people actually want you around
✓ Effortless magnetism that draws
people to you
✓ Unshakeable certainty in your own
worth
✓ Natural leadership that others
gravitate toward
✓ The kind of presence that makes
rooms come alive
This method bypasses your conscious resistance and installs these beliefs
directly into your mind—where real change happens. Fast.
Hey, it's Fernando 👋
In 2018, I couldn't even order pizza over the phone, spent YEARS in
therapy, and was still avoiding eye contact...
A few years after hitting rock bottom, I cracked the confidence code
differently: I reverse-engineered how the most confident people think
— studied high performers in 8 months.
I realized everyone was doing the same ineffective things: affirmations, fake-it-till-you-make-it, months of therapy... So I built InstantConfidence for 3 reasons:
- Reprogram your mind in minutes and focus on
what matters: enjoying your life
- Avoid the BS like positive thinking or willpower that never stick
- Get confident fast—the faster you install
it, the faster you will see results, the faster your life changes
The confidence advantage: better jobs, better relationships, better life.
When you have confidence, you don't just feel different — your
entire world shifts.
People treat you differently. Opportunities
appear. Doors open. Conversations flow. Dating becomes easy. Promotions
happen naturally.
Its like a cheat code. Everything you want in life sits behind
confidence. Get the confidence, get the life you want.
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